Teens of today have greater gravity of freedom then the previous generation. Education system, working parents, better communication systems could be the contributing factors.
Freedom is not like a bird flying in the sky, but like a tree rooted to the ground. Freedom too must have limits. Culture is a way of life in which there are many unwritten rules. These unwritten rules curb our freedom.
To enjoy, benefit and to sustain freedom we must have maturity. Many teens, obtain their freedom from their parents at early age but they are not matured to value their freedom.
Many of them know facts of live at early age, of what their parents know at later age. With the help of cellular phones, their catchments area to find new friend widens. What is more of opposite sex friends?
Many of teens find a boy friends or girl friends at early age. It is a fashion to have one. Usually if one has a boy/girl friend then there is a demand for them. It makes them feel proud.
With the acquired freedom they move about together. They will practice anything the culture says wrong and they will say wrong anything the culture says right. Then after sometimes with a smallest ever misunderstanding they will end their friendship and they will find a new partner at soonest.
This trend continues even after the teens leave school. Maturity and patience to find a permanent live partner is lacking.
This could be a reason the divorce cases among Indians Malaysian are the highest. About a generation ago Indians had the lowest divorce level in the country.
High divorce rate will lead to the problem of single mothers. This is one of a main social problem among Malaysian Indians.
Studies show that persons who have high mobility nature of work will have multiple sex partners. They also likely to have more then one wife.
Many say love has no eyes but it has brain. So, show patience, use the brain with high level of maturity to find a good live partner to avoid problems later..
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Today love is a trend as you say. But children look for love because they don't get it at home. If they get it at home. They will not look for it. Those who seek love are those who long for it. These individuals are deprived of their basic love at a tender age when parents go to work. Secondly they don't have anything to do. No sports, hobby but tv and media which are full of rosy love. This makes them think that love is beautiful. Once they are into it, its not as beautiful as it seems. Students today mature late due to lack of exposure and lack patience through the journey that causes divorce rate to shoot. Learn to live before you begin to live.
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